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Parents wants their children to be happy. Happy all the time ;) . Sometimes things run smoothly, but sometimes doesn't. A parent is in a worry or in a hurry, a child wants (to do) something else as his/her parent wants for the child. Then there comes to a conflict. A child gets stuborn and/or starts with emotional blackmailing :,( . (Parents are separated and the child lives some time with one and some time with the other parent and there is some competition for the child's inclination and none cooperation between the parents, yet.)

A parent wishes the child wouldn't use this type of behaviuor, but would rather cooperate. So what to do to make a child cooperate instead of involve in these negative behaviour? It is easier when a parent is calm and can react to such behaviour with laughing or tickling :laugh: , but what is best to do, what is the compassionate way, when there is agitation, worries and/or hurry :// ?

 

Khetsun

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but what is best to do, what is the compassionate way, when there is agitation, worries and/or hurry :// ?
At first place, why is there worries and/or hurry? Then, why worries of the parents should fall back on the child? Kind of rhetoric question, to replace the responsibility where it should be...

 

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